Non-monogamy

More and more people today are practising polyamory, open relationships and other forms of consensual non-monogamy. However, when looking for a therapist, people in “unconventional” relationships too often find that these relationships are pathologised. With many years of experience with diverse relationship styles – both in my own community and as a therapist – I am very comfortable taking each relationship on its own terms.

 Sometimes a relationship can function poorly because one or more partner is not well suited to non-monogamy (though the same can be said of monogamy). In my experience, the issue is usually not anything so broad, but really a mismatch of specific expectations, desires and interpretations of relationship agreements. In my work with clients, I can help them work through issues in their relationships by helping them articulate more clearly what matters to them and hopefully be able to communicate that to their partners.

 Please note that at present I only work with individuals, as I have not yet completed a qualification in working with couples. For clients requiring relationship therapy, I am happy to refer them to qualified colleagues.